When someone is effectively communicating the
audience will be engaged, make eye contact, ask questions, and remember the
information that they learn during the communication. My husband is working on
his Ph.D. in Education and was recently hired as the Dean of Curriculum and
Instruction at a chain of schools in NE Ohio. I have personally witnessed his
discussions and presentations that he has presented to audiences. Competent
communication has to have a foundation in education of the subject. He has
great knowledge of the educational program and the schools systems. I have even
watched him and had envy of how much knowledge he can obtain and references
while in conversation.
I have watched his audience watch him with intensity
and no one is bored with what he has to say. I have never observed an audience who
looked at their watch, played with their phone, or walked away. There is active
discussion when he is speaking about the educational programs and being an
important role in closing the achievement gap. After one of his presentations I
had a gentleman come up to me and compliment me on how well spoken my husband
was and what enthusiasm and compassion he had for the children. He speaks with
genuine heartfelt concern for children reaching their educational milestones
and succeeding, even beyond high school.
I think my husband and I have similar approaches to
communication and I would love to present myself in the same way that he does.
I want to make a difference in the lives of children and their families and I
want to be that person someone comes to when they are looking for help. I do
not want them to come to me just because they know I am knowledgeable, but
because they feel comfortable enough to speak to me.
Hi Sam,
ReplyDeleteI believe to be a competent communicator it takes a lot of work and discipline. You always have to be prepared. It is good that you and your husband share similar approaches to communication. I worked in husband's business for nearly two years and we kept on experiencing conflicts because business wise we just don's communicate well and this affected our personal relationship. As a matter of fact it started to put a strain on family life. Luckily I got another job and this made things better for me.
Judy